Men

Mastery of the Penis

Premature ejaculation can be a common problem among heterosexual men, particularly younger men. Often clients report severe distress arising from their inability to last as long as they desire during lovemaking. Before beginning to explore the problem, there are a few things explained which can hopefully help to normalise the situation. For starters, the average [...]

Faking the Big “O”

Recently The Sunday Telegraph conducted a “Let's Talk About Sex” survey which showed some interesting results. Of the over 1200 respondents, 74% of women claimed to have faked an orgasm during sex. Which leads to some interesting questions.  Why do some women fake their orgasms? What makes women feel as though they should fake an [...]

Return to Self

I often hear the term “fear of abandonment” used, especially in my profession, and often it is a very valid fear. Most of us have been raised by human beings, and therefore, fallible and imperfect beings. The nature of the small child is to be ego-centric, and so if needs are not met, then we [...]

Female Sexual Desire

New research seems to be pointing towards a refreshed perspective of female sexual desire. What has always been known to be a complex and intricate aspect of feminine sexuality is slowly beginning to develop into an intriguing picture. Recent, and at times controversial research is indicating that in order for women to want sex, they [...]

Pondering Porn?

Porn is a contentious topic among many, with opinions being strong and attitudes fixed. Both men and women may strongly oppose porn, whilst others understand it to be a regular and important aspect within their sex life. There are moral objections to porn based on what it portrays, how the actors might feel, and how [...]

The Dating “Game”

Do a quick search on the web for sex and dating and what transpires are many advice columns and articles espousing the “rules” of dating. Dig a little deeper and suggestions such as “don’t have sex on the first date” are common. More than that, some articles aimed at women might even warn against discussing [...]