Defence Mechanisms

Last Longer in Love

Being a sex therapist, clients usually contact me on the basis of sexual concerns – usually related to their desire, arousal or orgasm. Often, while a sexual worry is the motivation for seeking help, it is obvious that the sexual issue has occurred as a result of relationship challenges or changes. For some people, sexual [...]

Developing Differentiation – Becoming Independent within Relationships

There is a common theme emerging among Conscious Intimacy’s clients lately which has to do with control and power. Often relationships develop a power struggle with one party wanting to be seen as “right”, and usually it is both partners who want this award. More than that, this power struggle is often a bid for [...]