Relationship Counselling

Perspectives on Polyamory

Sex Therapist Perspective on Polyamory Polyamory is relatively under-researched, which is understandable as it is a pretty rare relationship style. Some may even go so far as to say that polyamory is invisible in our society. This makes sense as, often, when polyamory is discussed or exposed, moral judgment will describe polyamory as somehow beneath [...]

The Mutual Orgasm Myth

Many of my clients, particularly women, come to me asking how they can have a mutual orgasm with their partner. What they are essentially asking is if they can have sex like it happens in the movies (well, most of them anyway!) This glorified perception of the mutual orgasm is invading people’s sex lives everywhere, [...]

Living in Connection

Often sex and relationship therapy writing is about how to connect and be intimate with others.  We live in a society where there are so many distractions that it becomes quite easy to look externally for connection. One unique facet that Conscious Intimacy brings into therapy is the emphasis on connection with the self before [...]